We've been playing the name game. Trying to find a name for the little peanut. So many people have tried to help us, offering advice and lots of criticism of our list. Maybe too much criticism. It all seems well intended, but it hasn't made the process any easier. It's not like we're thinking about "Moonbeam" or "Benadrylia". One of our favorites is my Grandmothers name. She and I were very close when I was a child and she was lucid. I spent my summers with her and I have so many wonderful memories of playing gin rummy, watching soap operas, going to the Elks Lodge, eating really unhealthy food and basically living the life of a senior citizen. -Anyway, she was a cool woman with a cool name. I thought that my dad would be happy, even touched that we were considering naming his grand daughter after his late mother. WRONG! He said we need to be "practical". Practical? What, like Bahia Jamalieh? He's talking to me about practical names for little girls? -That's awesome. Where was he when I was alone on the swingset while everyone was pointing fingers and calling me "Hubba Bubba" and "Bologna"? Even my teachers made fun of my name.
Clearly, I have issues. But seriously... we're going to pick a name and we're going to do it on our own. If you want to give me advice, come help me roll over my 401 K or pick paint colors for the new house. Those are two topics in which criticism is openly welcome.

7 Comments:
Bahia,
Name your beautiful peanut what you and your husband feel is right. No matter what family and friends say, they don't know the connection that you and the dad feel towards the child. I grew up with a different name. My dad's name is Sim my mom's Echo. They questioned why I made the decision to name my daughter something original. Go with your gut. The only people you need to answer to is yourself and your hubby. Congrats on the pregnancy. Alexis
Thank you! Alexis is a beautiful name too!
We painted our kitchen in two shades of yellow and our living room in sky blue with brown trim. Roll your 401k into the mid-level fund and cross your fingers. I hope this helps.
Bahia,
I have loved your blog, you express yourself as I would if I did a blog. I have a two year old girl named Alaina and she is antisocial with my husbands family, loves the kids I also watch in my daycare and loves to strip down to nothing in front of everyone. I had a hard pregnancy, trying to get pregnant again and if you every need a person to talk to about anything. I am always online. I can be reached at aingram_25@yahoo.com
I don't mean to be anonymous, but I don't have a google account.
Thanks for all the nice comments. Carolyn, you are a wise woman. :) Thanks! The paint colors sound gorgeous! I wish I could come to the wedding and see your new house in person.
You did a wonderful job naming Grace. How could anyone not trust you to pick this one too? I'm sure you and Patrick will know the right name when it's time.
Thanks, Twitt. We have decided her name. My dad is just going to have to deal with it. We're naming her after my paternal grandmother and my mother in law, who is named after her(I think)mother.
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